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Jerk off with Jane – Masturbation Stroke Techniques

There are lots of stroking techniques – I am an advocate of controlled stroking this means not just slapping away at your cock, but controlling your hands and using various touches to enhance your orgasm.

Some of my signature jerking off moves include:

  • The Shaft Stroke -  In the shaft stroke you grip your cock with your hand, palm against the shaft and fingers wrapping around your width.     Move your hand up and down your shaft the edge of your fingers pressing first against your belly, then against the crown of your cock.   In the shaft stroke your hand never rises over the crown and your head remains untouched.
  • The Head Opener – In the Head Opener you draw your hand up and let your palm rest over the head of your cock, then close your fingers like you are opening a bottle of water.   Twist as if to open the bottle and twist to close the bottle – each motion will draw the jism up your shaft.     Twist around and back and around and back.     To enhance the head opener stroke – tighten your opposite hand around your shaft and hold it there.
  • The Mini Stroke – The Mini-Stroke is a technique where your dominant hand holds your cock and your other hand moves gently to enhance your orgasm by stroking the flat space under your balls.    Pressing two fingers against the flat spot you do a mini-stroke moving your fingers FIRMLY up and down.   Each stroke up sends the cum to your balls and sends strength to your cock, making it harder and harder.   When I instruct you, pause your fingers keeping the pressure up and begin stroking your cock again.

Now that you know the proper names – just let me know when you call for your next Janegasm!

Breathing Right and Cumming Hard!

For a the ultimate great orgasm you need to focus not just on stroking, you need to focus on fueling your body. The ultimate fuel for your body is oxygen!! Drawing that oxygen to your cock is the ultimate fuel to make your cock hard and make you cum harder!

I usually start every phonesex guided masturbation call with breathing instructions. Ujjayi breath is a term in yoga – the literal translation is “Victorious Breath”, sometimes in yoga class they will also call it ocean breath as you make an ocean type of sound if you do it right. To use an ujjayi breath you only use your nose to breath, inhaling deeply through your nose and exhaling through your nose – making each breath the same length. Ujjayi breath takes the breath deeper into your body giving you the oxygen needed!

Each of my phone sex guided jerking off calls start with ujjayi breathing. I firmly believe this helps to create strong orgasms. Closing your eyes, concentrating on your breathing for a moment helps first to chase away any outside thoughts and focus just on your cock, by focusing you achieve fantastic orgasms. After closing your eyes you will hear me tell you to breath – deep, deep cleansing breaths, so very deep. As you breath, if you focus, you can feel the oxygen moving to your cock, making it grow. After a few moments of breathing for prep – you will love the orgasm!

How to jerk off guide by Jane – Janegasms!!!

What is a Janegasm?   A Janegasm is one of the most powerful orgasms you can ever experience.   A Janegasm is so powerful it will leave you breathless, so powerful some men have fainted, so powerful… you will need a nap soon after!   Plenty of practice is needed to attain a Janegasm.  You can practice by calling me for phone sex or jerking off with some of the many “jerk off encouragements”  I write about here!

A Janegasms starts when you begin jerking off as like normal. Relaxing in the moment, enjoying the yourself as the hardness begins, not working towards orgasm, just enjoying.  Now you close your eyes as you listen on the phone, my voice walking you through each and every stroke.  When you feel that waves beginning and that first little tingle – STOP!   I know this is exceedingly challenging – but it will be worth it.  As you practice the ability to hold off on your first orgasms it will lead to a fantastic Janegasms!

jane does janegasmsAs you feel your blood pressure return to normal and all that jism seems to settle back into your balls, start stroking again and tell me. I will pick up the pace, walking your through your wildest fantasy until… You feel that tingling again, and you know you are just about to cum and tell me STOP and YOU STOP! When your heartbeat returns to normal, begin stroking again but this time feel as you feel you about to cum, stop don’t cum, don’t spurt just yet, grab that feeling, feel that energy and visualize it as a warm, pristine glowing light – visualize it spreading from your cock outward. Use your minds eye to watch the glowing light move up, capturing your heart and on outwards. Moving to your head, down your legs, radiating till you can feel the warmth all over, feel the energy everywhere. As you me on the phone, you will repeat the stopping and starting over and over and over again, each time the divine energy that envelopes your whole body will grow warmer and stronger.

Attaining Janegasms is a special technique – you start, stop, start, stop, start your stroking until you have enough energy in your cock to fill your whole being, to engulf you with warm glowing light. When you finally explode your whole body will feel it – you will have Janegasmed!

Now it is not easy, the first time you might only be able to hold it for one or two times – but, practice makes perfect. I guarantee you it is worth it!

Jane Challenged!!

So Jimmy called me today!!  He turned the Jism Challenge around on me! Jimmy has taken the Jane Jism Challenge a few times and successfully stayed on the edge for for long lengths of time, cumming wildly as I guided him to a great Janegasm. Jimmy also has a few fleshlights and we sometimes use them too and he cums like crazy!!

Today, Jimmy turned the Jism Challenge on me!!     I was watching a porn that a customer sent and the phone rang and Jimmy spoke… “Jane, I have been trying something new, I have not cum in 5 days…   I am going to NOT cum till the 7th day, this is your challenge – do you think I can hold out?”

“oh Jimmy, I am so horny today already…   I will make you cum and cum with you”, I replied :)

Well, I came hard… but Jimmy resisted all my efforts and held off.    I just know when he calls on Tuesday he is going to have a Janegasm!

How to jerk off guide by Jane – Jerking off with Phone Sex

Jerking off, wanking, jacking off.. you just want to cum right?

Many guys write afraid to make that first call. They want to know “how to have phone sex?” or sometimes just “How to jerk off”. Calling for phone sex is the hottest way to jerk off. Phone sex allows you to cum in the privacy of your own home and then just lay back and relax! It’s easy to call me for some hot phone sex – I take calls on Niteflirt – Niteflirt is a service that offers private phone sex calls. You just click on my call now button and Niteflirt calls you at your home and then calls me and connects us both! Niteflirt can call your cell phone or home or any number you enter – perfect for those late nights when you are alone in your hotel room. ALL of your information and mine is kept completely confidential!! Once you have signed up online, you can call me using the 1-800-TO-FLIRT hit 3 and then extension 02512624.

How to have phone sex – that is a common question and it varies from guy to guy! Just leave it up to me… We can do guided masturbation.. where I guide you through your stroking, explaining in detail where to place your hands, how to move – you just close your eyes and move at my command. Or, we can role play… I can be the slutty cheerleader and you are the football team captain and we both play our roles, acting out how we get it on in the backseat of your Dad’s car. You can also just rest and relax and listen to my voice as I describe fucking your brains out, or sucking your cock, or maybe you want some anal? It is all up to you and all very private… We can talk about whatever you want and you can jerk off and cum as many times as you want. My goal is to make your phonesex call to “Jerk off with Jane” end in the ultimate orgasm – or as I like to call them Janegasms!

Jane Salutes The Men Who Serve – Happy Memorial Day!

Monday is Memorial Day – as a Salute to the Men of the US military – I am offering an all day phone sex special!     Any military member (active duty or retired) can receive Five FREE Minutes added to any paid call!     Yes, Free Phone Sex Time  for our fighting men!  (Free Phone Sex for Mlitary Menand women if you want to call).

Memorial Day is about the Red, White and Blue – but not Blue balls – so why not call and get off with some free phone sex time!

To take advantage just call me, Jane at 888-837-4943 and tell me you want to do a call in addition to regular credit card info, please let me know what branch of military and where are you currently stationed or retired from.     Whatever call length you choose will have Five FREE minutes added to the end!    So if you normally do a 15 minute call – your call with be 20 minutes!

How to Jerk Off Guide by Jane – are you Married? Need to be quiet?

Needing a Janegasm but dont want the wife to know you are Jacking Off?   This is probably one of the most common quandries presented to me in email.     The email usually is something like this…  “Dear Jane, I want a Janegasm, but I cant let my wife hear me, she thinks I am just surfing the Net for sports not because I am horny – what should I do?”

This is easy, you want to call, you dont want the wife to hear you chatting and arouse her curiosity.    Just call, whisper and let me know you are the by tapping the phone, knocking it gently.    I will ask you “do you have to be quiet?” and you knock once for yes.

The rest of the call you just listen to me guide you through a great Janegam – the ultimate orgasm!    The code is easy – One knock for “yes”, two for “no”, and three for “thanks Jane, great cum”     Many guys even just use a pen to tap the phone.

Guided Masturbation with Aneros!

Did you know Men have a g-spot?  You have a g-spot – also know as your prostate!  Massaging your prostate during a guided masturbation phone sex call will enhance your orgasm by making you spurt buckets and buckets of cum! For some men the process of prostate massage or g-spot massage enables an orgasm without even touching their cock!

The Aneros is my new favorite toy! Perfectly shaped you slip the toy inside, letting the toy massage your g-spot. Using an aneros properly requires lots of practice, though the rewards are worth it. Once you insert the aneros, you control the massage action by controlling your breathing. The more controlled your breathing, the more more intense the massage. As you gain experience you will find you can cum without even touching your cock! After lots and lots of practice… you might even have a dry orgasm!

I do Guided Masturbation sessions guiding and coachinguided masturbation phone sex with Anerosg you using the Aneros.  I even do phone sex calls where I watch you on cam, walking you through each step from insertion to wild orgasm. After insertion, breathing and your position do the rest, I will guide you through proper breathing technique each breath massaging your prostate as your cock enlarges and throbs.

The first time can be tricky, and intense. Each time you will reach a new and higher level or erotic enjoyment. Some guys do just one hour session to learn proper starting technique, some guys do a guided masturbation phone sex each time they use the Aneros.

Check out the Aneros site here!

How to jerk off guide by Jane – Janegasms – Take a deep breath!

Three part breath – Dirga Pranayama is an intergral part of the yoga experience… also a VERY important part of attaining Janegasms! The Benefits of Dirga Pranayama is that it focuses the attention on the present moment, calms and grounds the mind. When you are lying down, you can really feel the breath moving through your body as it makes contact with the bed. The steps of Dirga Breath in a Janegasm can include:

  • Lie down on the back with the eyes closed, relaxing the face and the body.
  • If something is distracting you with thoughts in your mind, do not engage the thoughts. Just notice them and then let them go, bringing your attention back to Jane.
  • Begin to inhale deeply through the nose.
  • On each inhale, fill your belly up with your breath. Sending the clean fresh oxygen deep in your belly to your cock.
  • Exhale, expel all the air out from deep and through your nose. Draw the navel back towards your spine to make sure that the belly is empty of air.
  • On the next inhale, fill the belly up with air as described above. Then when the belly is full, draw in a little more breath and let that air expand into the rib cage causing the ribs to widen apart.

It doesnt hurt to practice some dirga breath before you call, letting yourself relax and become one with your cock, one with your own self. Remember the focus is our cock, focusing all of your strength there, feeling every bit of strength there… Focusing on the ultimate orgasm -A Janegasm!!

Stroke with Jane!

Stroke Stroke Stoke – yes stroking makes your cock happy!!

Sometimes I am asked – “is it OK to just stroke the way I like? “   Well of course – this is your call, stroke it any way you want!!!

Guided masturbation is just that – a guide, not a mandate, not an exact science.    I do have lots of success in making the best of men cum hard, but if something I tell you to do doesnt do it for you – well then, let me know.

If you dont feel comfortable discussing mid-jerk off session, let me know at the beginning of the next time you call :)

A great orgasm is my specialty and my goal, this can only happen with you communicating :)

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